Are You Emotionally Unavailable?

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When you get home from work, do you want to tell anyone about your day?

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I have SO many things to talk about. I can’t stay quiet when I’ve been quiet all day long.
I usually like to mention big things that have happened during the day.
Only if something really interesting has happened.
No. It already happened, why do I want to talk about it?

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I don’t understand the point of small talk or chit chat. We’re friends or nothing.
I have some acquaintances, but I’d really rather have people I can truly talk to. I don’t have tons of friends, but I put my energy into having good friendships.
I know a lot of people, but I’m not necessarily close to many of them.
I don’t consider much of anyone my friend. It’s hard to get close to people.

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I pretty much always want to talk. I call people most days or go out for coffee just to chat.
I talk to my friends pretty regularly. I like to have a good talk session once every week or two.
It’s not very common for me to do this. It happens when I have something big to talk about, and not much otherwise.
I’m not sure I’ve ever done this.

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I usually just say fine.
I don’t typically tell them much, unless they have made it clear they really want to know.
I’ll usually tell them information that’s relevant. I like to try to communicate, even if it’s hard.
I spend a lot of time waiting for people to ask me this question. I have a lot to share.

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No. Basically never.
Not too often, but sometimes we do disagree about things and talking through it gets a little heated.
A surprising amount of the time. I don’t think I say anything, but they get upset.
Constantly. People just don’t get me.